Tuesday, December 31, 2013

Sailing the British Virgin Islands: The best vacation ever!

Best Vacation Ever!
We went to the British Virgin Islands right after we were married with our good friends, Kellie and Mike. It was hands down the most amazing vacation either of us had ever been on. I was the only one who hadn’t been there before. Lucky for us, Kellie and Mike have been there several times, so they took care of the trip logistics. We were happy to serve as crew for Captain Mike who grew up sailing. Adam and I each had some sailing experience prior to this trip, but neither of us knows enough to dream of chartering a 40’ sailboat with just the two of us. So, it worked out great and was an amazing trip. We have wanted to go back since before we left. With infertility treatments, moving to another state, and paying adoption fees, we haven’t been able to go on a vacation since.

Catching the Mooring Ball
We have decided to take sailing lessons and go back to the British Virgin Islands for our coastal cruising sailing class this April. After which, we will be able to charter a sailboat from many different locations throughout the world! We are doing this for several reasons. 1. We really love the freedom and unique experience this kind of vacation offers. 2. It’s something we want to do with our future child(ren) and friends and family. 3. Distraction! We are going a bit stir crazy waiting to be matched with our future child. It is nearly impossible to think about anything else. It takes a lot of work to plan a trip like this, much more than I realized, which gives us something else to spend our time and energy on. This trip also gives us something to look forward to. Win-win! A BIG thank you to Mike and Kellie for doing all the hard work on our last trip. We look forward to returning the favor!
British Virgin Islands; The Baths, Virgin Gorda
We did book trip insurance so we can get most of our trip cost back if we do get matched with a little one and have to cancel. We had to pay extra because adoption isn’t a qualifying reason to cancel a vacation, go figure…


It’s going to be a fun experience that we look forward to sharing with you. Our first sailing class on a boat is in March. I am taking a sailing navigation class every Thursday evening that lasts 6 weeks starting in January!

Look familiar? This is the picture on the back of our adoption card!



Sunday, December 15, 2013

Nesting… sort of

I'm not an artist, but I wanted to paint something for the baby's room. Something that was meaningful and representative of us. After thinking about it for a while, I came up with a line from one of our favorite songs. Even If It Breaks Your Heart by one of our favorite bands, the Eli Young Band.
We first heard Eli Young Band when we were deployed to Ft. Hood, TX in 2010. One of our friends told us we had to go hear this great band. He was right, they were/are amazing!
As a couple struggling to start our family, the song Even If It Breaks Your Heart really strikes a chord with us. There our many heartbreaks along this journey, but we know we must Keep On Dreamin'.